Even when you say no. Even when you decide for yourself. Even when you don't please everyone.
A monthly membership for people who have long proven themselves to the world – they just don't believe it about themselves yet. One short, science-based video or exercise every week, one live group coaching session every month, and a community where you don't have to be perfect.
The first 10 members join at the opening price of €19 per month – the regular price will be €29. As long as the Club exists and your membership stays active, your price never goes up.
These are real sentences my clients have said to me, word for word – smart, accomplished, highly capable people:
This is not weakness. And it's not oversensitivity.
It's a learned pattern – and whatever was learned can be relearned.
Somewhere along the way you learned that love and acceptance are conditional: you get them if you perform, if you please, if you never disappoint. That's why you say yes when you want to say no. That's why you polish your work endlessly. That's why you replay your day in your head at night.
And that's why the next degree, the next compliment, the next success doesn't help either – because the measuring stick isn't in your hands. It's in everyone else's.
In the New Life Lab Club, we take that measuring stick back. Not with a crash course or a miracle method – but with proven, research-backed psychological tools, in small steps, consistently, in a supportive community.
Two minutes and you're in – you immediately get the “Start Here” pack with the SOS exercise.
5–20 minutes a week: a short video or exercise, delivered straight to your inbox.
Group coaching with Timi – we work on your real situations. Can't make it? Watch the replay.
One theme each month – from the inner critic through saying no to owning your decisions. One week: one small dose. Never more than fits alongside a cup of coffee.
A short video lesson (15–20 min): I show you, through a psychologist's eyes, what's going on inside you and the tool we'll work with this month. With a downloadable exercise.
A 5–10 minute video where I walk you through an exercise, plus scripts for real situations: what to say when you tell your boss no. Word-for-word sentences, not theory.
About 75 minutes on Zoom: we work with YOUR situations. As a PCC-credentialed coach I ask questions, hold up a mirror and put tools in your hands – in a group, yet personally. One-on-one, this would cost you many times more. Every session is recorded.
A mini challenge in the community + a monthly wrap-up: we sum up what you've learned, and I show you what's coming next month.
Every week I send you one thought and your next small step – plus a private community where progress matters, not perfection. When you join: the “Start Here” pack with the SOS exercise.
The membership evolves with its members – but it will never become an overwhelming flood of content. I promise.
I'm a psychologist and PCC-credentialed coach; I also train coaches and publish books. For more than 15 years I've been helping people find their confidence, move past self-doubt and create real change in their lives.
I created this club because I kept seeing the same thing in my clients: smart, skilled, successful people who had achieved everything – except believing they are enough. I built a place for them where change doesn't come from consuming yet more content, but from small, consistent steps – together.
This price is yours forever: as long as the Club exists and your membership stays active, it never goes up. In return I ask one thing: tell me honestly what works and what doesn't – the first members shape the Club.
Let's do the maths: a single one-on-one coaching session costs €80–120. In the Club you work on your own situations in a live group session every month, you get weekly tools, and a community keeps you on track – all for a quarter of the price of one session. And you can cancel anytime if it turns out it's not for you.
5–20 minutes a week, plus roughly 75 minutes for the monthly live session (also available as a replay). It's not about quantity – it's about consistency. That's exactly why it works.
It's recorded, so you can rewatch it anytime. You can also send in your question beforehand and I'll answer it live.
No. The Club is a self-development community built on psychological and coaching tools. It does not replace psychotherapy or psychiatric care.
In the monthly live group session we work with your situation too – but individual sessions are not part of the membership. If you'd like a one-on-one process, write to me and we'll talk it through.
No. Every month is a complete whole on its own – you can jump in anytime, and the “Start Here” pack gives you a handhold right away. There's nothing to catch up on.
As long as you find it valuable. There's no minimum term. (In my experience, though, give yourself at least 3 months for real change.)
You immediately receive a welcome email with your login details, the “Start Here” pack and the date of the next live session.
You are enough. Even when you say no. Even when you decide for yourself. Even when you don't please everyone.
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